Don't be unproductive. Don't you dare dwell on thoughts that do nothing for you. Don't you hold on to people who won't move forward with you. Don't be stagnant in anything you do. Never be stagnant. When it comes to faith, to relationships, to life in every single aspect, do not be stagnant. That's how pests breed. They breed in your absence, when your body is on autopilot. They breed when you get comfortable with whatever state you are in. An idle mind is the devil's playground. Work. Function. Do something, anything at all. Don't hide in your cave and stay away from others, that is how you rot. Even if you are bumming the day away with somebody, at least you are building on your relationship, somehow. You are spending time with people you love. You are using your time for something. Never waste away in the quiet. Never waste away in your head. Silence the unproductive thoughts and stop the empty tears. You are still living, so act like it.